What my son taught me this week


Zipping through the room, Logan went to his bedroom window and peered outside.

The rain was pouring down hard, hitting the window panes on the way down to the earth.

The rain droplets on the tree leaves dripped slowly in comparison to the intensity of the rain pouring downward.

Logan and I stood still and were mesmerized by the sight before us.

His wonderment turned into excitement and he put his hand on the window trying to feel the rain.

Logan turned to me puzzled that he couldn’t feel the rain.

“Mommy rain”

“Sorry Logan, but we can’t feel the rain. This is a window that lets us see outside.”

Logan looked at me somewhat confused.

An idea popped into my head, “Logan, can you stretch out your arms?”

With a huge smile on his face, he stretched out his arms and I lifted him up.

I carried him to the porch where I opened the door.

The momentary silence of the storm was filled by the sound of rain hitting the ground with an occasional sound in the sky.

Logan was excited and stared outside, taking it all in.

I did too, enjoying the moment with my son.

What stuck out to me was that this was not my first rainstorm but it was one of the few times that I was present in the moment and truly appreciating the sight before me.

It becomes second nature to overlook the sunny days, the rainstorms, and just nature around us as we tend to motherhood, business, and life in general.

We get so preoccupied with what needs to be done in the future or thinking about what happened in the past that we forget what is right in front of us.

It took my son and a rainstorm to remind myself of this.

Where in your life can you take a moment to be present today?

You are loved,

Dr. Celia

Dr. Celia

Dr. Celia is a coffee-loving, laid-back, nerdtastic cheerleader who can be found watching her favorite rotation of TV shows (Big Bang Theory, Friends and Home Edit) as if it was the first time-frequently with a cappuccino in hand. Her faith is very important to her. She loves spending her morning reading the bible and meditating on God’s word. And if you are into credentials…Dr. Celia is a board-certified psychiatrist with training in cognitive behavioral therapy and psychodynamic psychotherapy as well as a certified life coach. Taking what she has learned, Celia has integrated her skills to become a coach. Dr. Celia helps

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